Do you have a question for the Monday Mailbag, ask it here.
1. Rape Play / TPE / CNC
Can you please tell me the difference between Rape Play vs Total Power Exchange vs Consensual Non-Consent. And also, what do you think of these things? Are they ok?
Do you have a question for the Monday Mailbag, ask it here.
1. Rape Play / TPE / CNC
Can you please tell me the difference between Rape Play vs Total Power Exchange vs Consensual Non-Consent. And also, what do you think of these things? Are they ok?
I have reached a point, now, where I can speak about sex and BDSM with even vanilla people without much reservation or embarrassment. But it wasn’t always that way.
When we first started out, my partner and I would often have trouble saying allowed the things that we fantasized about. That’s a problem, because it keeps you from getting the things you want. So we devised a way to communicate with each other. And in the years since, we have shared this idea with others who have also been able to use it to help their relationships.
So here it is, the Red Folder. (more…)
We’re up to 121 followers. Woohoo. Please be sure to share this post if you find it interesting or helpful.
Now, it’s Monday, so here are some quick answers to questions that I have received.
Or… In some cases, questions that someone asked in my general vicinity or somewhere on the internet. But I am answering them here, because that’s where I am.
The questions have been paraphrased or otherwise edited down to the essential details. (more…)
We have put up a new handout on how to put together your risk profile and play within your personal boundaries.
You can find the guide in the Educational Offerings > Handouts and Resources section up top or by clicking this link here.
It’s Monday, so here are some quick answers from to questions that I have received.
Or… In some cases, questions that someone asked in my general vicinity or somewhere on the internet. But I am answering them here, because that’s where I am.
The questions have been paraphrased or otherwise edited down to the essential details. (more…)
First of All, I want to go ahead a celebrate having over 100 followers.

(Don’t Play Drunk)
Now, since it’s Monday, here are some quick answers from to questions that I have received.
Or… In some cases, questions that someone asked in my general vicinity or somewhere on the internet. But I am answering them here, because that’s where I am.
The questions have been paraphrased or otherwise edited down to the essential details. (more…)
Let’s try something new. Quick answers from to questions that I have received.
Or… In some cases, questions that someone asked in my general vicinity or somewhere on the internet. But I am answering them here, because that’s where I am.
The questions have been paraphrased or otherwise edited down to the essential details. (more…)