Defining and Refining Your Role as a Submissive

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My class on “Defining and Refining Your Role as a Submissive” is my most popular one. It is also the subject on which I have devoted the most attention and work. I originally started the practice of categorizing submissive roles a few years back with my partner (and now wife) Rain. We began to analyse the different roles she plays as a submissive and why those different roles are appealing to her. We noticed that a few simple indicators worked to predict which role she would be most comfortable in at any given time and helped us to actually put names to them and refine them to a point where we both have a far better understanding of how to act within the framework of each different persona.

I don’t have a handout for this class. I use a powerpoint. But after about a 1,000,000,000,000 requests for the information to be available here, I have written up the topic as a series of posts. You can find each part by following the links below.

Part 1 – Background

Part 2 – Theory

Part 3 – Analysis (coming soon)

  1. Rhiannon says:

    Will you be posting Part 3 – Analysis? I hope you do, this is great stuff! Thankyou 🙂

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